I think if the words we spoke were written on our skin for all time we would be a lot more careful with what we say.   I think back to the hundreds of thousands of words I have written here and smile. But truthfully, I am most proud of the words I wrote when I was in the most pain. Those times I felt slighted, humiliated, looked down upon, cheated, those times challenged me the most to be able to put something positive to paper. Sometimes it demanded tears, but in the end, it was all worth it.  The hardest thing in the world is to gentle with someone else when you are in pain. Everything in you wants to fight back, to…