There’s this fine balance… No matter what, things are going to change and you have to learn to go with them. But… You also have to learn how to fight for what you know is right. This can be a bit tricky. How do you distinguish between the moments where you go with the flow and the ones where you start moving against the current. For the longest time (and I’m still working on this) I couldn’t find that balance. I didn’t know how to let go and to move with it. Instead, I fought like all hell against just about everything. I could accept change. I wanted things to go the way I thought they should. Because of that attitude, I was actually…