Always believe in yourself. In time, things done with great love, even though they may delver short term pain always bring the best back to us. Hard decisions have to be made. Thing is, you can make those decisions with other people in mind. When I was much younger, I thought the world simply revolved around me. What I found out, by way of karma, is that is the farthest thing from the truth. You can live that way, but in the end selfishness comes back to bite you in the butt. The mark of a truly unselfish person is to think of the ripples amongst people on the outside before making a decision. While it is almost impossible to prevent everyone from getting…