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    It has been an interesting few years to say the least. There have been many many challenges across the board (too many to list) and even more changes. But I want to talk about what's written above more than anything because I think that's the most important part of it all.⁠ You are not deficient. You are not lacking. You are not a piece or a part of a soul. You are not a victim. Let me repeat the last one - you are not a victim.⁠ That first step can be pretty scary. Leaving what you've know behind and heading into something new? That takes so much courage. But it's also hard. There's a ton of momentum from the old ways of doing things and trying to shift that can be a challenge in of itself.⁠ A few important things to take with you on your path. Got any other good ones you'd like to add? No matter what happens, you have to find it within yourself to keep hanging on and refuse to quit. Don't ever give up. Don't ever let your fears have the last word. That's not why you're here.⁠ As much as you love other people, you must also fiercely love yourself. Compassion can be very soft but it can also roar like a lion. There's a wonderful balance between the two.⁠ It's #6 for me. You? What do I need? What does the deepest wisest version of myself say? When you can answer that question (and the answers might change every day) you are at the essence of self-care. ⁠ Drop a comment if you're feeling this 💛 It's not easy letting go. Everything inside wants to hold onto what we know. Even if it isn't the best thing for us, there's some sense of comfort in the familiar. ⁠ You never get "there." There's no island where it all turns out. Rather, you're a constantly unfolding being always learning and growing.⁠

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