The World Reacts
Posted on August 8, 2013
The days of changing yourself to appease other people is over. Back in the days of cavemen, yeah sure you might have to because you lived in a tribe of 17 and you had only a few shots to impress “the one.” But today is different. Today we are no longer suffering from choice deficiency. There are literally hundreds of thousands of people who you can meet that might be interested in you…just the way you are. Interesting concept eh?
So this post has two messages to it. I never really ever say them outright but I think it’s so important. Because once this realization hit my mind (Thank you Allison Armstrong) it changed the ways I think about things.
1. Be yourself. The right people will stay. The ones who don’t like who you are about will go…and you don’t even have to ask them to leave they will just leave.
2. Change for – you. Because only you can change for the better. Find something deep within yourself that you can hold onto while you travel down the path of transformation. Then…do it because you want it. Not because your wife told you to. Not because someone insulted you and you are full of that “I’m gonna show you” attitude. Do it for you – that stuff lasts I promise. The reason within…that will take you to places you never imagined you could go to.
It is time to go out into the world and have it catch up and react to you. All too often we try to paddle to the wave that we just missed that everyone else is on instead of waiting for the next empty wave to surf. If you focus too much on the wave that you just missed you will never see the one that is forming behind you. Don’t follow the crowd just because everyone else is doing it. Follow that little something deep inside your heart that is telling you to do it your way. That way, while difficult – (trust me I know) will give you deep answers that you could never get by knowing all the answers right out of the shoot. In fact…know nothing. Socrates said that the smartest philosopher in the room was the one that admitted that he knew nothing. That should tell you something.
Because once you “know” something you give away your opportunity to learn about life when you were clueless. You lose your fire for it. You stop learning.
Find your path. Blaze that trail. It’s lonely I promise you. It’s basically you and your horse heading to the Western Front and beyond. But that’s the exciting part. If you focus too much on the fact that there’s nobody around when you are on your way then of course that is all that is going to occupy your mind. Or, you could go explore, enjoy listening to what is going on deep within your heart, and when you find what you are passionate about…act on it. Build the coolest damn thing anyone has ever seen. Feed the idea. Help it grow. Let it blossom. I think this next quote says it best
“If you build it, they will come.” – Field of Dreams
In a world that demands instant results for everything, a demand that completely juxtaposes the short-term results of what “going after your passion” creates, it is incredibly easy to get caught up in thinking that you are failing because you don’t have millions of followers or making mad amounts of money. Keep going. Keep trucking away. Thomas the Train taught me when I was young to say, “I think I can. I think I can. I think I can.” You have to first believe it – then it will happen for you.
So build your dreams and let the world react to you. Ride your own wave and barrel it out.
The Better Man Project
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I love your blog!:-)
convictions are pivotal!
AWESOME. Fantastic comment. And I hope you will be around to see what I come up with 😀
Thank you! What did you like about it so much?
Good! YOU have everything YOU need!
Thank you! I appreciate the nomination and love the support 🙂
Thanks! Appreciate the support.
Haha thank you – Ryan is awesome
Such an awesome thing when I get comments from people who were “thinking” about things and then they become concrete! Boom I love it!
And now I hope you are out of it! What specifically spoke to you?
Thanks for the reblog!
Always look forward to your comments thank you 🙂
Thank you for the great comment! And I am very glad that you liked how it was put together.
I am glad it hit you when it mattered! That is such a fulfilling part of writing for me. Definitely go after what you want and make it happen!
Very good post! Have to work on more of these convictions. Thank you!
The essence of an independent mind is not what they think, but how they think. It seems you have introduced, under the radar, the implications and inferring transformations for thinking for yourself. From the skimming, you have not brought up any supernatural intervention, I am glad you did not. It would have severely dismounted your prose. Interesting to see what YOU come up with next.
Very inspiring, thank you 🙂
This is such an infinite deep truth..follow your heart,always..thank you so much!
Ah yes… To not think we know…is when we really start to learn. I am a humble servant of this wondorous life
Never again will I be heard saying, “If only I had…” Now that’s real freedom!
I just nominated you for the ‘Versatile Blogger Award’. See it HERE:
http://betheloveoflife.wordpress.com/2013/08/08/versatile-blogger-award-nomination/, Enjoy, and thank you for DOING YOU!
Well said, Evan!
Love this and the Ryan Leslie song!
Wonderful. I live a life of serendipity. I follow your blog, but today when I read it, I just happened to be thinking about change. Your words confirmed so much. Kudos to you!
I was fighting frustration and then I read this. Thank you.
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Thank you for this. It is a true gift.
What an important message to get out there — and quite eloquently put if I do say so myself. Touche — and thank you for the thought provoking words!
I think that this is a brilliant post, I really like what you have written. This one calls to me, because I am at that point where I want to find the trail that is me, the trail that I will blaze.
Thanks for this one. This is really good