My Life

When I was talking with someone the other day in describing a snapshot of the things that I have been through over the past three years…I created this analogy that I want to share with you. I also want to share it because I think it applies to a lot of people. Everyone really goes through the same things in life they just have different details. However, while we seem different, the cause of wars…hate…and anger towards the unknown…we are all similar beyond belief. Wash the color of skin and scrub the details that make us unique…each of us have a heart…and it is challenged by the same thing as everyone else around the world. Similar, not different. I’m not a glass half full or half empty type of guy, that question isn’t important to me…I look for the glass on the table that is most similar to the one I am drinking out of.

When I started writing, the parking brake was pulled up in my life. When I tried to speed up, I couldn’t go fast…when I would slow down I would almost immediately come to a dead stop. I was in the way of myself. I was my own parking brake. And once you drive around for a while with the brake on…you just avoid going fast all together. You can smell the brake burning, represented by you burning yourself out, and you play small. In fact…you might not even drive the car at all. Stuck. Really stuck.


I had the opportunity to spend 6 days with an amazing group of people, and the glasses were taken off my eyes. Possibilities were open. I could run my life and not be controlled by the emotional garbage men that were always following me. I saw a new way. Life is colorful not black and white. People are inherently good…not bad. Trust. Integrity. Respect. I had the ability to drop that parking brake, and took off. 1st gear. Shift. 2nd gear. Shift. 3rd gear. Shift. 4th gear. Shift. We were moving.

When I walked the stage at Santa Clara, and didn’t feel a thing, I was struck pretty hard by that reality. Why didn’t I even feel a thing? I realized weeks later that graduating wasn’t the dream. In fact, I didn’t even know what the dream was. What are you passionate about? What do you want to do? What will make you happy?  What will make you strike like a controlled lightning storm? I realized that writing a book, coaching people, getting real results out there in the world, taking all the knowledge I have gained over the past 4 years at school and applying it right off the bat would make me proud. Yah, I have $0…but I am at the point where that can all change. And that is what it is about…putting your money, reputation, and heart on the line for something you believe in. I am all in.

So what happened during this phase…I realized that I have 4 more gears. I mentally began to see myself as something that was incredibly high performance. Yes sometimes I have to do some serious maintenance on my life, but it is okay to believe you are your dream car…as long as your life represents that type of performance. When there is a disconnect between actions and words, you are going to get into trouble. So I am shifting gears. There are more gears than I thought were possible…especially since I had originally been driving a car that had trouble starting and even going.

Drop the brake, and take off. Keep going. Get on the race  track of your life…don’t just be in the stands watching someone else do it. Have a lead foot. See how far your car can take you. You will be pleasantly surprised.

Evan Sanders

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  • teresasdreams
    December 21, 2012 at 7:59 am

    Great analogy!

  • Keizick
    December 21, 2012 at 8:03 am

    Reblogged this on Shadow in the Mirror and commented:
    This is another beautiful post by Evan Sanders. He is a wonderful inspiration. If you would like to find motivation, he is willing to be your life coach for free. Just send him a message through his Facebook page or via email. Get your life together, spread happiness, and live beautifully!

  • themisanthropicmuse
    December 21, 2012 at 8:27 am

    “Get on the race track of your life…don’t just be in the stands watching someone else do it. Have a lead foot.”

    Sometimes I wonder why I feel like there is always rush hour traffic on the race track of my life.

  • level3life
    December 21, 2012 at 8:28 am

    could not have said it better myself. I’m at the beginning of this analogy, just realizing that my break is pulled. I look forward to racing at top speed through hairpin turns! thank you for your insights. I truly felt this post.

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  • Grass Oil by Molly Field
    December 21, 2012 at 8:39 am

    nice. really. and i appreciate that you gave us some Adam Levine this morning. the shortest day of the year has nothing to do with how long we are willing to go. you inspire. thank you.

  • earlyinitiative
    December 21, 2012 at 8:46 am

    Great post! It prompted me to dig out one of my all-time faviourites –
    Our deepest fear, by Marianne Williamson. I find this absolutely compelling, and it brings me out in goose-bumps whenever I read it. I hope it resonates with you…

    Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

  • teasbook
    December 21, 2012 at 9:35 am

    You have given me much to think about, I will take it to heart. Thanks for sharing the great post! 🙂

  • Joy is now
    December 21, 2012 at 1:14 pm

    Excellent and the video is fantastic!! Why aren’t more people watching it? It’s easy to create a quick Vimeo login. I feel I know you now. I am rooting for you all the way. The money will come too. I’m sold. What should I buy??

  • crimsonprose
    December 21, 2012 at 2:58 pm

    There is an incredible sense of exhilaration at that moment of take-off. But it’s wise to remember (said as encouragement not as a dampener) that when you’re flagged in to the pits, it’s for much-needed maintenance, and isn’t a cue to get off the road for ever. Recoup, recover, and off you go.

  • dsmythjr
    December 21, 2012 at 10:35 pm

    Remember to bring as many others along for the ride as you can!