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  • In This Messy Life

    I think as time has gone on, I’ve come to understand that life is naturally a bit messy. People are complicated. Feelings are ever-shifting and the fluid nature of everything becomes…

  • My Heart, Full Of Fury And Fire…Rage

    My heart, full of fury and fire…you must rage. Rage into the night. Burn down the past and let the flames be the light. And what a delight… Watching you rage…

  • One Step At A Time | 6 Years Later

    6 years ago yesterday, I started a blog called The Better Man Project because I was a lost young man swimming in broken dreams and had no idea which way to…

  • Courage, Dear Heart, Courage

    Courage, dear heart, courage. Find the courage to do this. Find the courage to dive as deep as you can and go back with the intention of learning and understanding. There…

  • Bloom Beautiful Soul, Bloom.

    Bloom brave soul, bloom. Become everything that you were meant to be. Discover what you’ve never known. The winter has passed. It’s time to bloom. I’m ready to begin. On every…

  • With One Step, You Begin

    One step. That’s all it takes. That single step may become the greatest step you’ll take in your entire life. I don’t believe that journey’s are necessarily planned for you ahead…

  • As I Really Started To Figure This Out

    There’s been this anxiety in me for quite some time. A sense of deep internal turmoil. I was fighting with myself in many ways. Fighting to understand what I was really…

  • Even As Your Heart Trembles

    It took me my entire life to understand this. There are moments that arrive at your door that will make your heart tremble and your entire body shake uncontrollably. You’re not…

  • And If It Shall Arrive, I Will Meet It Gladly

    These paths twist and turn at will. There’s no stopping them. I’m exploring again. This time, not upon the surface levels that I can see but rather diving into the depths…

  • Through The Fury

    To hell with it. To hell with dancing around this anymore. I’m going through. All the way through. I’ve known for quite some time what needs to be done and yet…

  • Kid Dreamer

    Don’t worry, I’ve got you. Come along. It’s the kid version of me that I care so dearly for. While I’ve grown up in many ways, I find myself heading back…

  • It Was Never About Trying To Fit In

    It was never about trying to fit in when I started. But I knew that life. I knew what it felt like to be outcasted and not a part of the…

  • Melting Into Trust

    Trust. Melting into trust. That’s been my greatest challenge for a long time. I’ve struggled with letting go of the grip I had on life because I was frightened of what…

  • The Second Step In The Sand

    There are certain decisions you know will change your entire life. For me, the biggest one was February 9th 2011 when all of this began. The Better Man Project was created and everything…

  • These Bigger Dreams

    Dreams. Unfolding. But these are bigger dreams. In fact, they are dreams big enough to scare me. That’s how I know they are good. They are big enough to keep me…